Let me politely preface any future friend requests

I most likely will not accept your friend request if you have a blank or your cock as your avatar~ I don't fancy talking to ? blanks, nor do I care to meet your dick before I know anything about you. I am trying to be respectful, but it's just not my cup of tea. Thank you for heeding this request. If you do not, you'll not be accepted into my little corner of the world, and you'll have no reason to wonder why. ❤️❤️❤️

in my most polite tone of voice, I do not cam or skype. I do like intelligent conversations though, so I might kik. What can I say I have a lengthy about me. I will not edit my about me, because I believe in it. What do I want? That's a whole other story. One that's not to be advertised here. If you're intelligent, have something interesting, or at least honest to say, message me. If you're going to love on my photos, tell me why. If you're going to friend me, tell me why. I don't bite. (Hard....unless you like that)


LOVE connecting with others, so feel free to send a friend request and message if you like!

Greetings! For those that are going to take the time to read this (HI!), thank you!!

I post pictures of myself (I'm an addict-don't worry, you'll get tired of my over-exposure, soon enough), photos that inspire me, links to music that make me feel alive, and comments to discussions that pique my interest in continual personal growth and learning, and just plain old primal, sexy, raw, erotica that I'm into. (Wait...there's nothing plain , nor old about the latter!)

Anyway, I digress. Since I have been on this site, I have met some absolutely fantastic, intelligent, thoughtful, multi-faceted and kindred souls on here. I feel comfortable, safe (mostly) and accepted here. For those of you whom have welcomed me...NAMASTE! what an interesting and diverse group of people we are! Our differences are beautiful and amaze me.

I'm a lover of life, of people, of all things that are honest and soulful and raw and open. I absolutely cherish and get inspired by learning about people who are similar and yet different that I am. I am a life long learner and student to this wonderful experience we call LIFE! I welcome intelligent discussions, along with goofy and silly ones, as well. I believe that differences of opinions and perceptions we all have, do not make anyone RIGHT. What is right for me, may not be right for you, and that's just fine. Having the ability to respectfully debate, discuss, and exchanging of ideas are one of the most enjoyable things for me (despite the obvious ridiculously high sexual drive I possess:) as long as it remains civil and not emotionally driven and doesn't become hurtful. See, I've got my own ideas about life, they may not coincide with yours, but hey! this is truly one of the most beautiful aspects of being a human and having a soul, a mind, and a heart. I'm not a believer that I must make you see MY way as the RIGHT way for you, It's just what I believe for me. My truth isn't any better than yours. So bring on the deep conversations about life! Let's figure this all out! I'm a nurturer by nature, but please do not insult me, nor yourself by assuming I'm not aware if I'm being used and taken for granted for my Empath personality.

Yes, I'm newer to being out of the closet within kink, BDSM, erotica (at least displaying these interests in an open forum such as this, while still maintaining the separation between this aspect of me and the other more personal, vanilla, private and "normal" (ha! What is "normal" anyway) life. Here, I feel safe to explore this beautiful and wonderful side of me, amongst other "like-minded" individuals. I feel as if my petals are unfurling and opening to their full and vibrant days in the warmth of the sweet summer sun. (Watch for the thorns, I can morph from a sweet and quiescent black eyed Susan, to a pristine, proper and thorny rose).

Having said all that, and hoping that I have not painted an awful, judgmental and rude image of myself...I would love to meet new people, exchange,discuss, debate, learn about you, as much as I'd like you to learn about me. My heart is truly bursting at the epicardium (outer layer of the heart ie the seams) with love, kindness, servitude, and loyalty. My chordae tendineae (heartstrings) are strong, yet fragile, but ALWAYS resilient.

I'm Irish. I'm sassy, I'm sweet, I'm your best friend, or your worst nightmare if you mess with me or mine. I am delicate and sensitive and fragile at times, I'm also confident, saucy, intelligent, socially adept, over-achiever, and I am working on talking less and listening more. But damn! I've got so much to say!! Haha.

In summary, I'm a walking, breathing, living and sometimes maddening contradictory woman. If you can accept this, appreciate it, not be too harsh on your criticisms (trust me, I do that to myself more than anyone possibly could), I'd very much like to get to know you.

Here are the rules, the "bottom line" as they say:

I'm not into humiliation. Do not assume I'm an easy fuck. Do not insult either of us by using, manipulating, nor exploiting me for your own personal gain. I see right through that crap, been around it my entire life. 94 years is a long time to live and learn, after all ;). No... I'm not 94. I do not get senior citizen discounts, although that is total ageism, by the way! Just like the discounts for students 18 and under at the nail salon! Blasphemy!! I'll not sit idly by while I get excluded for my age!! I want my 22 dollar pedicure, dammit!

(Did I perhaps mention my mind never stops? Bare with me, I'm getting to the point and the end of this)

Please do not start off with something like "hey baby, I have a huge cock and I want to stick it in all of your holes," or "show me your pussy," or "I'm the best fuck you'll ever have, let's do this". All of those or similar messages will not only block you, but will leave me laughing at your "smooth" demeanor and I might just have to say a little prayer for your future endeavors.

Do not mistake me for a prude. I'm as much of an exhibitionist and kinky, sexy bitch as they come (you may NOT call me a bitch, only I can do that, thank you very much). I'm not hard to figure out, if you take the time to listen, to hear, to notice my change of tone, voice, gestures, when I don't like something. I'm also 187.56% into reading yours, as well.

Rambling on far too long!

Want to be friends FANTASTIC!!
Want intimacy, be honest, raw and real.
Want love, have a heart full of it yourself.
Want a thorn in your side, fuck with me or mine.

I'm done, finally!! :)

P.S. Don't assume to automatically dominate me.

P.P.S. I love strong minded, disciplined, controlled, fair, calm, loving, gentle/rough, and demanding/confident men. I've never been with a woman! Eek! Crazy, huh?? I love women, their curves, their softness, their strength, their emotions, their ability to multitask. Lol. I'm not opposed to experiencing this. It's truly one of my multitude of scenarios in my own person "spank bank," but I'd need a gentle, kind, sensual and patient Domme type to rid me of my anxiety and newness for that. I'm willing to play nicely and learn. I'm pretty quick at picking up on new things, and after all, you're usually good at what you love.

I sincerely thank you if you took the time to read this, if you have, comment in your message for a friend request, which part you resonated with, or why you would advise a psychiatric team and intervention. ;)

Have a beautiful, lovely, joyful and present day.



All quotes following, are from Ram Dass~

The heart surrenders everything to the moment. The mind judges and holds back.

The most exquisite paradox… as soon as you give it all up, you can have it all. As long as you want power, you can't have it. The minute you don't want power, you'll have more than you ever dreamed possible.

In most of our human relationships, we spend much of our time reassuring one another that our costumes of identity are on straight.

As long as you have certain desires about how it ought to be you can't see how it is.

Let's trade in all our judging for appreciating. Let's lay down our righteousness and just be together.

Treat everyone you meet like God in drag

Learn to watch your drama unfold while at the same time knowing you are more than your drama.

**Everything in your life is there as a vehicle for your transformation.
Use it!**

The question we need to ask ourselves is whether there is any place we can stand in ourselves where we can look at all that's happening around us without freaking out, where we can be quiet enough to hear our predicament, and where we can begin to find ways of acting that are at least not contributing to further destabilization.

There's much more in any given moment than we usually perceive, and that we ourselves are much more than we usually perceive. When you know that, part of you can stand outside the drama of your life.

Our interactions with one another reflect a dance between love and fear.

By acting compassionately, by helping to restore justice and to encourage peace, we are acknowledging that we are all part of one another.

The secret isn't that you're not being told.
The secret is that you're not listening

Souls love. That’s what souls do. Egos don’t, but souls do. Become a soul, look around, and you’ll be amazed-all the beings around you are souls. Be one, see one. When many people have this heart connection, then we will know that we are all one, we human beings all over the planet. We will be one. One love. And don’t leave out the animals, and trees, and clouds, and galaxies-it’s all one. It’s one energy.

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