I'M DOMINANT, MARRIED, STRAIGHT & POLY!

I WILL NOT PAY TO RELOCATE ANYONE!

I'M NOT A SUGAR DADDY DOM!

DO NOT SEND A FREINDS REQUESTS WHEN WE HAVEN'T EXCHANGED E-MAILS!

I AM VERY BBW FRIENDLY!

 

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile.  Like many others here I am a collarme refugee & I am using the same screen name here.  After reading what happened I don't blame them for leaving collarme & I'm grateful that they made Society 31 for the True Believers. 

I am MARRIED to a disabled wife who has progressive - worsening MS.  I have been her sole caregiver ever since she was diagnosed with MS which has been for the last 28 of our 33 years together.  She is losing the use of her mind as well as her body so I must seek fulfillment of my needs elsewhere.  I can not host at my home & can not have a 24/7 live in D/s relationship.

IF this bothers you continue your search elsewhere.

I am a man of Faith but I am SPIRITUAL not religious.

I am DOMINANT, STRAIGHT & POLY!

I have:

D/s:  submissives & a bottom,

M/s:  slaves,

DD/lg:  a Daddy's little girl,

S/M:  pain sluts.

I enjoy all these relationships.

All are LTRs.

ALL ARE FEMALE!

I do both real time & on line sessions.

I am a Connoisseur of Kink.

I am sapiosexual.  I enjoy intelligent discourse & interaction with open minded individuals.

"Intelligence is the Ultimate Aphrodisiac."

"The Mind is Everything.  What you Think you Become."

"There is nothing tighter than a closed mind."

I can be a loving Daddy Dom or leave you bearing the pain, marks & satisfaction of a very intense session.

"Bite marks are love notes written in flesh."

Let's talk & get to know each other.

Safe, Sane, & Consensual

&/or

Risk Aware Consensual Kink.

 

Please put "RACK" in the subject line of your e-mail so I know you have actually read my profile & it's not a BS spamming otherwise your e-mail will be deleted unread & I will block any further contact.

 

Words of Wisdom:

"I'd prefer an interesting vice
to a virtue that bores."
 

~ Moliere 1622 - 1673 ~

 

"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did so.  So throw off the bow lines.  Sail away from the safe harbor.  Catch the trade winds in your sails.  Explore.  Dream.  Discover.

 

~ Mark Twain ~

 

"Never make someone a priority

when all you are to them

is an option."

 

~ Maya Angelou ~

 

"Most welcome, bondage, for thou art a way,

I think, to liberty."

 

~ William Shakespeare ~

 

"There is a charm about

the forbidden that makes it

unspeakably desirable"

 

~ Mark Twain ~

 

"The only way to get rid of a temptation

is to yeild to it."

 

~ Oscar Wilde ~

 

"Normality is a paved road:

It's comfortable to walk, but no flowers grow."

 

~ Vincent van Gogh ~

 

Enjoy life NOW!

It has an expiration date!

 

The deepest

sexual penetration

is of the mind.

 

Tender kisses

on pretty pink places

make her open

like a rose.

 

~ Unknown ~

 

I find myself drawn to people who are

intelligent, funny & perverted.

 

My level of maturity changes

depending on who I'm with.

 

"We all have our time machines, don't we.

Those that take us back, are memories...

And those that take us forward, are dreams."

 

~ H. G. Wells  "The Time Machine" ~

 

"To laugh often and much;

to win the respect of the intelligent people and the affection of children;

to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends;

to appreciate beauty;

to find the beauty in others;

to leave the world a bit better whether by a healthy child,

a garden patch,

or a redeemed social condition;

to know that one life has breathed easier because you lived here.

This is to have succeeded,"

 

~ Ralph Waldo Emerson ~

 

 
"A life is like a garden.
Perfect moments can be had,
but not preserved,
except in memory."
LLAP
(Live Long And Prosper)
 
~ Leonard Nimoy ~
RIP
(His final tweet.)
 
 
"Don't explain.
Your friends don't need it,
your enemies won't believe you."
 
~ Pavlo Coelho ~
 
"A mediocre Master tells,
A good Master teaches,
An excellent Master explains,
But a True Master"
 
"INSPIRES"
 
~ Leonardo Da Vinci ~
 
"The body is both
a pleasure palace
and
a torture chamber."
 
~ Charles Levin ~
 
"Now i lay me down to sleep
i'm a slut in Master's keep
If i'm asleep or wide awake
i pray all of me my Lord will take"
 
~ KeyMaster55 ~
 
"I never lose...
I either win
or I learn."
 
"Never laugh at anyone's dreams.
People who don't have dreams don't have much."
 
"Love deeply and passionately.
You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely."
 
"Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk."
 
"When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?"
 
"Remember the three R's:
Respect for self;
Respect for others;
&
Responsibility for all your actions."
 
A submissive's prayer

"Master,

Owner of my body and Director of my will,

You are with me.

i am thankful that i serve you.

Let me be transparent as glass,

that my heart may be visible always,

for my entire self,

even unto death,

are yours.


Master,

i honor you with my service

and submit to you my thoughts, words, and deeds,

so that i may be a reflection of Your will,

and the manifestation of Your desires."

 
"Pleasure is the object, duty & the goal
of all rational creatures."
 
~ Voltaire ~
 
"The mind is the most overlooked sex organ.
Shape it, and you can induce
a state of sexual delirium.
Ignore it, you merely get off."
 
~ Unknown ~
 
"Pain without pleasure is abuse.
Pleasure accented with pain & humiliation
is the path to sexual delirium & total relase."
 
~ Unknown ~
 
"My soul is not contained within the limits of my body; my body is contained within the limitlessness of my soul."
 
~ Jim Carrey ~
 
"Hope is the heartbeat of the soul."
 
~ Michelle Horst ~
 
"Remember fear is a bluffer,
it boasts more than what it can really do.
Call it's bluff, & it will disappear."
 
~ Richard Daly ~
 
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do.  So throw off the bowlines.
Sail away from the safe harbor.
Catch the trade winds in your sails.
Explore.
Dream.
Discover."
 
~ Mark Twain ~
 
"You are unrepeatable.
There is a magic about you
that is all your own..."
 
~ D. M. Dillinger ~

"True strength lies in submission
which permits one to dedicate her life,
through devotion,
to something beyond herself."

~ Unknown ~
 
"The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails."
 
~ William Arthur Ward ~

"Dominants are not great because of their technique but because of their passion, honor and integrity."

"Submissives are not great because of their obedience but because of their love, trust and devotion."

"Life & it's possibilities hold battles worth facing, fights worth fighting. The beauty of the picture far outweighs the frustrations of putting the puzzle pieces together."

~ Unknown ~

"The more faithfully you listen
to the voice within you,
the better you will hear what is sounding outside."

~ Dag Hammarskjold ~
 
"Discipline is the refining fire by which talent becomes ability."
 
~ Roy L. Smith ~
 
"Discipline is the bridge between
learning & accomplishment."
 
~ Jim Rohn ~
 
"Most welcome,
bondage,
for thou art a way,
I think, submission is not about being used,
submission is about being of use...
submission is not about what is done to you,
submission is about what you do for others ...
Strong men simply need women. This will never be understood by weak men.
A strong man needs a woman at his feet,
who is truly his.
Anything else is less than his fulfillment.
 
Unknown liberty."

~ William Shakespeare ~
 
"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive & well preserved body,
but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate & wine in one hand, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out & screaming 'WOO HOO what a ride!"
 
~ Unknown ~
 
"I will not tip - toe through life
only to arrive safely at death."
 
~ Unknown ~
 
"submission is
giving Him
the POWER
to destroy you
and TRUSTING
Him not to."
 
~ Unknown ~
 
"Slaves, be subject to your Masters with all reverence, not only to the good and gentle, but also to the perverse....
Wives in the same way are submissive to your husbands."
 
~ 1 Peter 2:18 and 3:1 ~
 
 "The Masochist desires to experience stronger sensations, but desires that it should be inflicted with Love.
 
The Sadist desires to inflict stronger sensations, but desires that it should be felt as Love..."
 
~ Unknown ~
 
 
"No brake should be applied to passion, when the appetites speak, they must be heard."
 
&
 
"There are thorns everywhere,
but along the path of vice,
roses bloom above them."
 
&

"Sex without pain is like food without taste."

&

"The only way to a woman's heart is along the path of torment.

I know none other as sure."
 
&
 
"No kind of sensation is keener
and more active than
PAIN
it's impressions are unmistakable."

~ Marquis De Sade ~
 
"it is how He acts
and how He owns
and how He treats 
 that..
makes the slave ..
know who she is
and of her importance..
she has to feel loved..
otherwise what is it really?"

 ~ MastersWildStar ~

"Any D/s relationship between two (or more) people is a relationship first and a D/s relationship second. As with all relationships, there is a need for mutual reciprocity in the relationship; everyone involved must feel that the relationship meets their needs."

~ Franklin Veaux ~
 
"A Dominant says more with a look than a shout."
 
~ Unknown ~
 
"Life is not about Running from the Storms
 Life is about Learning to Dance in the Rain"
 
~ Dario de Baja ~
 
 
ZEN TEACHINGS

1.        Do not walk behind me, for I may not lead.

           Do not walk ahead of me, for I may not follow. 

           Do not walk beside me for the path is narrow.

           In fact, just leave me alone.
 

2.         Sex is like air.  It's only important if you aren't getting any.



3.       Good judgment comes from bad experience ...

          And most of that comes from bad judgment.



4.        Don't worry; it only seems kinky the first time.


5.        Never test the depth of the water with both feet.

6        When you are dead,  you don't know that you are dead.

          It's difficult only for others. 

It is the same when you are stupid.


7.        Before you criticize someone, you should walk a mile in their shoes. 

That way, when you criticize them, you're a mile            away and you have their shoes.

8.        If at first you don't succeed, skydiving is not for you.

9.        Give a man a fish and he will eat for a day. Teach him how to fish, and he will sit in a boat drink beer all day and lie about the fish he didn't catch.

10.      If you lend someone 20 bucks and never see that person again,

         it was probably well worth it.

 


 
`I`d prefer an interesting vice 
to a virtue that bores.`
 
Moliere 1622 - 1673

`Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn`t do than by the ones you did do.  So throw off the bowlines. 
S ...
 
 

 
`I`d prefer an interesting vice 
to a virtue that bores.`
 
Moliere 1622 - 1673

`Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn`t do than by the ones you did do.  So throw off the bowlines. 
S ...
 

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City:
DeLand
State:
Florida
Country:
United States
Zip:
32724
Orientation:
Dom/Domme
Gender:
Male
Sexuality:
Straight
In lifestyle Since:
Too many years to remember.
Marital Status:
Married
Age:
63
Height:
5ft 10in
Body Type:
Slim
Hair Color:
Grey
Eye Color:
Hazel
Drink:
Yes
Smoke:
No
Drugs:
No
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Member's ID: 8762
Member ID:
8311
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